Yesterday on the plane ride home I read this book in its entirety. I thought there were some very good points made and intend to practice some of his ideas with a couple of my more difficult children.
I had come to the conclusion a few years ago that attempting to control my children through attempting to modify their behavior just simply was not going to work. They were not changing and I was getting more and more controlling and nothing good was coming out of it. So reading the book and discovering that they had arrived at the same conclusion was a relief.
I am not going to go into any more detail about the book, but I definitely think it is an approach worth knowing about and considering. I think you should click above and buy it, read it, and let me know what you think.