I think that is the beginning of every great thing that happens, including the beginning of the thought for a family to adopt a waiting child. They have motivation, but their excuses are stronger. The "Buts" outweight the "Why".
I think I'm going to use that next time I recruit... and I'm not going to belabor it any more here. But apply it to your life.
Is there a situation in your life where your Y needs to be bigger than your But?