tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11190188.post3728861855415832041..comments2023-12-10T07:27:17.914-05:00Comments on Never a Dull Moment: It's All in My Head, Even if It Isn't in TheirsClaudiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02057662343562530495noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11190188.post-30938153323286370512010-04-02T07:26:09.116-06:002010-04-02T07:26:09.116-06:00You son knows how he FEELS but feelings aren't...You son knows how he FEELS but feelings aren't facts. You might write down those things you mentioned, in chronological order, and save it for some time when he is able to have a more or less rational discussion. If he sees the facts in black and white he may acknowledge the truth.<br />Of course, he may accuse you of "picking on him," but it might make him realize that he is not the innocent victim that he thinks he is.Miz Kizzlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05650747741395559803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11190188.post-14168846031933426672010-04-01T21:30:07.882-06:002010-04-01T21:30:07.882-06:00so true. i have the hardest time keeping my mouth...so true. i have the hardest time keeping my mouth shut when my daughter is spewing stupid things that I have a whole host of comebacks for. you are right. it does no good to say it. ughPsycho Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08310390778188375950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11190188.post-37639795497241992422010-03-31T12:25:21.159-06:002010-03-31T12:25:21.159-06:00I hear you!I hear you!GB's Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08866513131959998883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11190188.post-66912340202074460692010-03-31T11:16:05.236-06:002010-03-31T11:16:05.236-06:00I have a child with brain damage, not from FAS, bu...I have a child with brain damage, not from FAS, but from a head injury. I also have a child who may or may not have been exposed to alcohol... we will never know the whole story. I had wanted to go to this seminar: http://www.bemidjipioneer.com/event/article/id/100017295/<br />but I missed it because of work. My friend went to it, and she told me something I now tell myself whenever my child's issues make me feel crazy. "You have to remember, she has brain damage." Total perspective shift. <br />I am so sorry that you are dealing with these adults! I read your blog hoping to glean little truths to help me as I raise my challenging children. <br />Thanks - KerryAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02295714433164887820noreply@blogger.com