tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11190188.post4012733723915830786..comments2023-12-10T07:27:17.914-05:00Comments on Never a Dull Moment: Paying attention to the Speaker, even when it's me...Claudiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02057662343562530495noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11190188.post-28194557555241245232010-11-11T15:53:47.818-06:002010-11-11T15:53:47.818-06:00I'm curious. Who won the "more retarder&q...I'm curious. Who won the "more retarder" title and was it considered a good thing or a bad thing?<br />My kids debate who has the most pimples and who the dog likes more. They get it from my husband and me. We once argued over whose family of origin was more dysfunctional.Miz Kizzlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05650747741395559803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11190188.post-5298264614861993312010-11-09T06:46:24.305-06:002010-11-09T06:46:24.305-06:00Well, we got a bit carried away during the beginni...Well, we got a bit carried away during the beginning. If you read my book I think you'll see how we acquired the children and what our motivation was.<br /><br />Large families work differently than smaller families. I think all parents of large families can attest to that. Attention comes from all kinds of people and it ebbs and flows -- I'm not sure that I can explain it. But my husband and I have always had work with flexible schedules where some of it can be done at home and I think that our kids actually receive more attention from parents than many kids in families with two or three kids where both parents work full time outside the home.<br /><br />If you want to come visit and see how we do it you're welcome! ;-) I'm not sure how we do it either, but it seems to work ok most of the time!Claudiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02057662343562530495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11190188.post-57768621157928492442010-11-08T12:56:02.258-06:002010-11-08T12:56:02.258-06:00New to this and have been considering becoming a F...New to this and have been considering becoming a Foster Parent. I have come across a lot folks who have have way less number of kids they foster. My question is how did you end up with so many and why? It seems super stressful dealing with just one or two. How are you able to devote any type of attention to your kids, your husband, your self when so many people need you? I am not trying to be judgmental. I really am just curious. I'm sure you started off like me, wanting to help and than you got one than two, than three etc...I seriously don't know how you do it.Mamihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14445206695330833420noreply@blogger.com