tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11190188.post8937151910985662711..comments2023-12-10T07:27:17.914-05:00Comments on Never a Dull Moment: ResentmentClaudiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02057662343562530495noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11190188.post-2898249923970701722009-11-09T09:04:28.806-06:002009-11-09T09:04:28.806-06:00I hope you have not blogged this morning because y...I hope you have not blogged this morning because you are at the Dr ;)LindaJeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10022598734430807752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11190188.post-32095894370522365242009-11-08T17:41:44.828-06:002009-11-08T17:41:44.828-06:00claudia, i would be so frustrated and resentful al...claudia, i would be so frustrated and resentful also. mine are little yet, so the mindset is different, but i truly cannot imagine having grown children at home who are not productive. that could be the cause of your physical problems, also. i ended up with fibromyalgia when i was going through a very long, long stressful part of life several years ago. when we keep things inside, eventually our bodies just get sick of holding all that in!!! wish i had a magic answer for you. just thinking good thoughts your way!Lynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16590278628017497891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11190188.post-725808640857905302009-11-08T16:27:37.803-06:002009-11-08T16:27:37.803-06:00It's an 'end of the road, hit my wall'...It's an 'end of the road, hit my wall' thing...but you might be forced into a decision of tough love. You might have to explain to your Adult roommate who is not carrying his share of the load that you aren't being a good parent by bailing him out and to be a good parent you need to have him leave the nest and he has 60 days to do it. For courage you might try to picture what his life would be like if you fell off the face of the earth tomorrow. Could he survive without you? Most (kids) Adults do. It's just easier to let you do for him than him do for him. Since I'm offering an unasked for opinion, feel free to... :) but there was something, a lightening, when I gave mine the whole 'not the mommy anymore' speech.cshellzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05962995921020881222noreply@blogger.com